As I hinted yesterday, this has been a hard period for me and my boyfriend and there is some additional hardness in store for us. His father died last night after a fight with cancer so this is going to be a time for grieving for all of us.
Joža wasn't my father but I knew him for 8 long years and my boyfriend's family has become an additional family to me.
He was one of the nicest people I know - forgiving of everyone, with a kind word for everyone, a silent pillar of strength with a lot of knowledge (some of which included making great wine and spirits).
We will miss you!
I'm sorry to hear of your boyfriend's and your loss. Wishing you the best.
ReplyDeleteSO sorry, Ines. I'll be thinking of you through this hard time.....
ReplyDeleteOh sweet girl , my thoughts go out to you and your boyfriend .
ReplyDeleteNo one wants those they love to pass , but if he was suffering , even now I believe he is at peace and watching over you .
The perfumes you wear now float away for him to smell on high...
may you find peace and comfort from those around you !
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this. There's never an easy way to deal with grief but all I can say is, time heals. Lots of love. xxxxx
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss!
ReplyDeleteEveryone, thank you so much for your kind words!
ReplyDeleteThere is a lot of comfort to be found by our family and friends, I just wish I could do more for my boyfriend who is taking this really hard.
Time will heal us all.
Ines, so sorry for what you and your boyfriend are going through. Grief - particularly over the loss of a parent - touches us all at some point. Sending you healing thoughts today.
ReplyDeleteHi Ines - You poor thing. I'll be thinking of you and your boyfriend. Best wishes, Jess
ReplyDeleteAch, Ines-- I am so sad to hear that. Big hugs and big heart go out to you.
ReplyDeleteInes, my thoughts and prayers to you and your boyfriend...wishing you every comfort to help you get through this difficul time.
ReplyDeleteJosephine, I saw on your blog you went through such an experience not so long ago. I was really sorry to read that. Thank you for the kind words.
ReplyDeleteThank you Jess.
ReplyDeleteLVN, thank you for thinking of us.
ReplyDeleteSuzanne, I'm also sending prayers for my boyfriend - I just wish I could ease his pain more.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear of your loss -sending you wishes of comfort and peace.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about your loss.... my boyfriend experienced something similar a while ago, and I understand your feeling of helplessness, though probably your support means the world to him.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Ivana
Ivana, thank you for the kind words. I know it's part of life but it's just a really tragic part.
ReplyDelete